As a creator of experiences, I face this challenge on a daily basis. How do I get audiences to perceive manufactured, or “not real” offerings as authentic and therefore worth their time and money or even better, transform their view of a brand?
Empathize. You have to know your audience. Walk a mile in their shoes and you’ll start to scratch the surface of their reality. My wife is the Executive Director of Girl Talk Theatre, a non-profit theatre company that gives a voice to marginalized women in Boston. Through her genuine offering of their stories, I have experienced a new empathy for a population I previously knew nothing about. Find ways to experience the lives of the people you are trying to reach.
Plan, plan and then plan some more. Spend time up front making sure you create something that matches both the needs of your audience with the objectives of the brand. My mom had a great love of puzzles and I remember spending hours with her over the dining room table looking for that perfect piece to build the image. Planning an experience is like finding that missing puzzle piece. The shape on one side represents your audience’s needs and the shape on the other side represents the brand’s objectives. The perfect experience is like the missing puzzle piece joining both sides.
Get some REAL perspective. Step back and look at your work, not to congratulate but with a truly critical eye. Really see your offering through the eyes of your audience. Is it gimmiky, fake or cheesy (to use my 12-year old daughter’s favorite adjective)? Or does if feel genuine? What could make it more so?
In the end, the experiences we all create are fake, “full of sound and fury, signifying nothing” because they’re made up. But if crafted correctly, they can be perceived as “such stuff as dreams are made on”. So I dare you to do the work it takes to get real when you create an experience. It’ll change your life and maybe a few others in the process.




